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Truth Based Relating is developed by Kaya Jiwan after years of working with couples and individuals on trauma, relationships, addictions, 

personal crisis, intimacy, the body, the nerve system and the brain. 


Truth Based Relating is a full spectrum methodology where knowledge, insights, visual stimuli, embodied imprints  & nerve system regulations are combined into a powerful cocktail that leaves not other possibility than to go through the transformation your system has been waiting for.


The signature training Truth Based Relating is a 4-day training for seekers, couples and individuals who desire to receive insights, embodied knowledge & tools to work with relational blockages, subtle manipulations, trauma bonding, core wounding, co-dependency,

the nerve system and micro addictions both in themselves and others.

In Truth Based Relating the lies you have been telling yourself, consciously and unconsciously,

will be exposed.


In the 4 days we will work with specific practices and techniques to burn through the old neuro pathways. We will explore how to let go of the cellular body trauma, how to transform micro addictions, and what is needed to balance the nervous system. You will learn the gold and wisdom of triggers and discover how new imprints can be implemented through embodiment. 


In Truth Based Relating we work with you, your body history and your profile. We don’t dive into the personal stories the mind created about ourselves or others but instead use the body as the tool to cut the cords of the lies that keep us hooked. We also don’t focus on the love relationship, but on the relationship that you have with yourself in connection to others.  


The field will be raw, loving, disturbing, uneasy and honest. We will explore the gap, the strategies, the layered identity, the avoiding mechanisms, shame, guilt and your core imprints of conditional love.



Although the training is body-based with a lot of practices, there will also be time for shared knowledge, insights and wisdom to give you a better understanding of the dynamics of your system, your responses to life and your relationships.



Intuition, lies & dis/trust

Mirrors of trauma

False identity layers 

Pleasing and fitting in

Micro addictions and safety 

Love and loneliness

Frequency of Home

The illusion of belonging

Validation wounds

Playing the victim

Cutting cords

Responsibility and authenticity

Nerve system rebalancing

Wisdom of triggers

Neediness, needs and desires

Translating subtle manipulations

Co-dependency & Avoidance

Trauma bonding and drama

Freedom based connections

Cellular Memory Body

Inner leadership and authority

Primal navigation and childhood wounds 





 We work with a container of inclusivity, confidentiality and safety. You are welcome alone or with a partner. All practices are an invitation with space for your boundaries and explorations.


Truth Based Relating is based on 25 years of experience in working in the field of love, trust, bodywork, relating, trauma and of course Kaya’s own fck ups in life and relationships. Kaya is not afraid to call herself out on her bullshit and will do the same to you.


Truth Based Relating

4 Day Training


Personal intro call

Methodology Manual

Integration meeting

Aftercare call


Regular 1.500,- euro/1.700,- usd


23 - 26 June



22 - 25 September


Ready to dive deep? You can fill in the application form or book a clarity call with Kaya to explore if this training is for you.


In the little book of inspiration, 1000 subtle ways, you can read more about the background of this signature training.   .