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When you are motivated by the need to be liked, to be accepted, to be loved, you are easily influenced, manipulated, controlled and triggered. With subtle manipulations you convince yourself you need the other to feel good, to feel alive.


When you are rooted in your own power, you wake up to the fact that you just need to feel your own body to feel alive, satisfied and fulfilled. Yes, when you dare to come home in your body and liberate yourself from the need of  belonging you become truly free. 

And powerful as fck.


Truth Based Relating is an in-depth training for explorers, couples and professionals who desire to receive insights, embodied knowledge & tools to work with the subtle manipulations, trauma bonding, core wounding, co-dependency, nerve system  and micro addictions both in themselves and others.

In this training we will work with the concept of cellular body trauma which blocks us from being who we truly are in relationship to ourselves and others.

We will not dive into the personal stories the mind created about ourselves or others but instead use the body as the tool to cut the cords of the lies that keeps us hooked in.

We are here to transform contraction into expansion.


The training is based on the concept of alchemy, it is not a dark heavy training where we will re-live traumas or re-imprint our nerve system with going back. No, we are seekers for gold. We are alchemists of truth, creating high pressure diamonds out of the lies we have been living for so long. Step by step re-claiming ourselves by cutting free the layers that have been defining us. .



Topics we explore 

Love, lies & trust

Mirrors of trauma

Pleasing and fitting in

Micro addictions

Frequency of Home

Deep intimacy

The illusion of belonging

Validation wounds

Cutting cords

Nerve system rebalancing

Body reading

Soft surrendering

Wisdom of triggers

Source anchoring

Neediness, needs and desires

Translating subtle manipulations

Co-dependency & Avoidance

Trauma bonding

Freedom based connecting

Memory Body




We work with a container of inclusivity, confidentiality and safety. You are welcome alone or with a partner. All practices are an invitation with space for your boundaries and explorations. However touch and being touched is a part of the training, so is body alchemy and body awareness.


If you are not comfortable with touch, (partial) nudity or have questions if this is the right training for you, please reach out. Due to the intensity of the training we will work with a limited nr of participants.  After the intro call, Kaya will create a personal profile which lays the foundation for your training.

If you want to get an in-depth feeling of the training and to explore your possible personal profile you can download the TBR inspiration e-book


Truth Based Relating

4 Day Training


Personal intro call

Methodology Manual

Integration meeting

Aftercare call


Regular 1.500,- euro/1.700,- usd

Truth NFT 1.500,- euro/1.700,- usd


24 - 27 May



21 - 24 June


We wonder


The training will be held in several European cities in 2022 and 2023. For questions and upcoming dates reach out by email