The beginning of a relationship is often beautiful and full of promises. You found the one that matches you like no one did ever before. You feel a strong attraction and the future feels bright and filled with love. 


Unfortunately sooner or later this feeling dissolves. Instead of feeling trust, love and aliveness, you find yourself in arguments, doubts and distance. 


You lost the subtle spark of attraction, the spark that makes your eyes glow and your body tingle. The spark that makes you fly high on love and togetherness, ready to rule the world.

You promised yourself that you would never be one of those watered down couples. You promised yourself that you would never be one of those couples that always argue. You promised yourself that you would never stay together for the kids, or out of fear to be alone. 


But here you are.

 Not in your power

Not in your aliveness

Not in your juice


You feel there is still love, but when you look into the mirror you can not ignore the fact that you lost a part of yourself.


The relationship is still alive, but what about you?


You try to find the answers, you try to ignore it, you try to find a solution, you try to talk about it. Because you know this can not go on forever. 

Why why why

Why did the attraction slowly die?


Why did you leave yourself, please the other to end up feeling depleted and full of blame?


What is this fear of losing the relationship if you claim back your long lost autonomy?  


What is this weird layered feeling of being strong and powerful in so many areas of life, but feeling lost in relating and love?

And why is it so difficult to trust and to feel safe after relationship agreements have been broken? 


Kaya offers a couples mentorship to explore the deep reflections of your relationship. You are welcome alone or with your partner.


Together we will identify the wounds, struggles and attachment strategies. The essence of the relational blockages, avoiding mechanisms, core wounding and imprints of conditional love that keep you hooked into a dynamic that doesn't serve anyone.


Intro session

In person or zoom

500,00 euro 


3 months

6 sessions

Dynamics & Analyses

What's app support

6.500,- euro


Due to the intensity of the work, Kaya only accepts a limited nr of clients. Kaya works with clients all over the world online or on location. It is possible to book a Couples Mentorship as a private weekend and as a 3-monthjourney. If you desire a different set up, reach out for an introduction call and Kaya will create a personal offer based on your needs and desires.